I think thoughts and prayers should be banished.
Not the actions themselves but the phrase "thoughts and prayers."
I think I've heard about enough of that phrase recently to last me forever.
I think politicians and public officials are the worst for this, but probably only because they are often asked to comment on tragic situations that they have no close ties to.
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Google News search this afternoon came up with 3,204 uses of the hackneyed phrase, and at first glance many of them appear to be from different sources.
Here's are a few recent uses of the trite phrase in the news:
June 25, 2008, after a western Kentucky plastics plant worker opened fire and killed five co-workers and himself:
"This is a devastating loss to this community which we have been a part of for more than 40 years," Atlantis Plastics CEO Bud Philbrook said in a statement late Wednesday. "Our thoughts and prayers are with the victims and their families and we will work with them to provide our help and support."
June 21, 2008, after a NHRA driver was killed when his car crashed and burst into flames:
"That really hits close to home," Keselowski said after winning the pole position for Saturday night's race at the Milwaukee Mile in West Allis, Wis. "(He was) a friend of my family's, and I send my thoughts and prayers out to him. That's tough to hear."
June 17, 2008, President Bush speaking in the East Room of the White House in honor of Black Music Month:
As we honor black music in America, our thoughts turn to one of its legends -- Bo Diddley. Bo was one of the pioneers of rock and roll. And during his more than five decades as a singer, songwriter and performer, he changed the face of music. He really did. We mourn his loss, yet we know this -- that his memory will live on in the songs and the joy he brought to millions -- including a little fellow like me. So all of us here today send our thoughts and prayers to Bo Diddley's family.
I guess I've always heard the phrase and cringed a bit, but it wasn't until Tim Russert died the other day that it really got my hackles up.
"I am grief stricken with the loss and my thoughts and prayers go out to his family."
-Sen. Barack Obama
“Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family and we know that Tim Russert leaves a legacy of integrity of the highest level of journalism and we miss him and we will miss him a lot."
-Sen. John McCain
I've got more to say on this, but I've got to go for now. More next week. Stay tuned.